One more request

So I have been trying to customize this blog and it hasn't turned out that well. In the process I deleted all of our blog links. If you are not on my list and you feel that you should be...and don't be shy, please give me the link :) Thanks!

Somebody help me!

I am trying to make my blog pretty and can't figure out how to do it! Where do I find the cool layouts or make my own? I may really be this dumb :(